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Imagine improving your self esteem to a level where life was enjoyable
and inspiring. A life where you felt like you were a part of
something bigger. Kind of like the feeling you get when you get
offered a job or you receive an invitation to a party. You feel
that you are wanted, have some value and feel greater self-esteem.
Why do some people feel that their lives are worthwhile and yet others
feel like they are a waste of space and a burden?
Are their jobs more important? Is it because they were blessed
with a better personality or greater intelligence? The truth is
there could be a dozen reasons why you think someone is better or more
deserving or 'together' than you.
If you are serious about overcoming low self esteem you can notice the
pattern between those that do have and those that don't. The most
permanent and powerful way of enhancing self esteem is to look at what
these people think of themselves, not what they think of their
achievements.
Be very clear that anything you have WILL NOT and CAN NOT make you feel
differently about yourself.
The advertisers and marketers do a great job of linking products, goods
and services to your self worth and they convince us through clever
advertising that owning stuff and having stuff is the way of raising
your self esteem.
When you look at it closely the thought process you go through in
raising self esteem by your possessions or achievements is via what you
think others will think of you.
If you get the new gadget, car, or house with a certain address you
feel better for a short while because you feel that others think of you
differently and that makes you feel better about yourself, for about 2
to 9 days if you are lucky.
Improving your self esteem permanently is about changing what YOU think
of yourself irrespective of what others think. In fact you can't
raise your self esteem while you care
what others think of you.
So how do you change what you think of yourself?
You discover who you are, accept it and embrace it. Cherish the
unique individual that you were created as. You become conscious,
grateful and in awe of that which you are and that which created you as
opposed to that which you have.
As you become more conscious, which seems to be the only thing to do
while here on earth, you transform from believing you are something to
knowing that you have
that thing.
For example you might think you are the body but as you become directly
conscious of reality you know that you have a body. You then
might think you are the feelings and thoughts until you transcend this
and see that you have
thoughts and feelings and so it goes on into infinity.
You continue to discover the truth and each time you raise your
consciousness you permanently raise your self esteem. Or more
accurately you leave behind the illusion of who you falsely think you
are and realise you are in reality OK.
The fastest ways I have experienced of improving your self esteem is
through shadow work and also the
personal peace procedure of
EFT.
Can you see that improving your self esteem permanently is about
knowing the truth of you in reality, as an existence, as a being rather
than trying to make the illusion a better feeling illusion?
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