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Transforming your experience of yourself is the key to overcoming low
self esteem. In 2007 two years after I had my first and most
profound enlightenment experience I realised how I could learn more
about my conditioning and programming.
Unfortunately you and everyone else grew up with less than ideal
influences and messages. You are subject to the messages from
your parents and teachers about what is right and wrong. However
Mum and Dad or whoever took care of you have their own unique hurt and
fear and this shapes the messages you receive.
Your self image and your ideas of what is acceptable and expected is
formed from these messages and your own unique interpretations of what
you experience.
Improving your self esteem is about discovering what is true below
these messages. Who are you before you believed what your hurt
Father did or said to you? What is real below this hurt layer of
beliefs? If you were told that you are good at nothing and will
never be anything in life then this becomes what you believe to be true.
I am interested in what is true in reality, not just what you
believe. These beliefs cover up what is true and unfortunately
you will continue to experience these beliefs as true instead of what
is actually true.
If you believe you are stupid you will interpret your actions and other
people's actions and words to align with this belief. I may say
something silly (and I do at times) but I never make it mean I am
stupid. You also may say something silly and you will feel
stupid and hate yourself and feel that feeling of low self esteem.
It is the same with any trait: ugly, boring, not good enough, mean etc,
etc. Whatever you believe to be true about yourself will be how
you interact with others and how you interpret what you experience.
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