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Here is a list of random acts of kindness ideas to inspire
you. Pick one a day or one a week and go out specifically to do
this act.
Performing a deliberate act of kindness isn't the same as a random and
spontaneous act, but acts of kindness benefit everyone. The
recipient will experience it as random and that is the benefit to all.
WHO
Animals Environment
People The Divine
HOW
Actions Speak/Listen Thought
WHAT
Smile Listen Gesture
Eye Contact Touch Ask
Money Food
The above table shows for you a comprehensive list categorising who you
can show kindness towards, how you do it with your body/mind and in
what way you can be kind.
The order from left to right is how it has come through for me from
most influential to least.
Someone could always put up a rational,
logical case for the order to be changed, but human logic pales in
comparison to the wonder of the unknown. Animals and the
environment are at greater mercy to humans so that is why they are
first. Other people and The Divine are more self-empowered so
they are listed last.
In the What row, smile is listed first because it is a moment of
connection and recognition, which is the most comforting 'thing' you
can
provide to an other.
Not everything in the What row can be applied to everything in the Who
row, but most of it can, for example you can't make eye contact with
the environment.
Random Acts Of
Kindness
Ideas
1. Smile at someone
A slight heart-felt smile even with a closed mouth does more than an
intentional widening of your mouth and showing your teeth, which is not
really a smile. Also, don't smile and wait for their reaction or
hope you see some evidence of the 'good' you have done. That
would make your smile a trade, an exchange, not an act of kindness.
2. See someone and let them see that you see them.
This is all about eye contact proper. Eye contact is NOT about
looking at someone's eyes. It is about receiving what is behind
another person's eyes and getting the whole experience of them in front
of you. When you are 100% focused on their eyes and are cognizant
of the 'being' that illuminates and operates the eyes, you have seen
them and they feel that you see them. This makes people feel very
good.
3. Make a space for an animal that is theirs alone.
4. Put your hand over someone's heart space.
This can be combined with proper eye contact (number 2 above).
This is a special kind of hug with someone who you are emotionally
intimate. It requires agreement with the other; you can't just go
up and do this to someone without them expecting it.
Stand facing each other and place your right hand over their heart -
centre of chest just below collarbone is perfect. They do the
same to you and then you place your left hand on top of their hand that
is on your chest. Likewise they place their left hand holding on
top of your hand that is resting on their chest.
5. Recycle rubbish.
6. Hug someone, with their permission or consent
Random acts of kindness ideas do not have to look a certain way.
So
long as you are doing something for the 100% benefit of something
outside of yourself you are being kind.
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If you have video of you performing acts of kindness then send the link to me and I will embed it.
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