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The Secret Law Of Attraction, Law Of Attraction Tips, Law of Attraction Explained

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The Secret Law Of Attraction

The secret law of attraction is not so much as a secret as it is a universal law that brings to you the opportunities to experience externally what is in alignment with your attitudes and beliefs.

Having the law of attraction explained to you is not going to change anything within your life.  The beauty is that once you accept the law of attraction is as real as the law of gravity you can learn from some law of attraction tips below.

If you don’t accept this law being universal then it will still operate, but you will not be able to see the correlation between your attitudes and your experiences.  You will have no room for growth or to understand who you are.

Stated briefly the secret law of attraction is a phenomena of nature which gives human beings the ability to manifest what they choose.  In order to see this in operation you need to reflect inwards into what beliefs and attitudes you have about yourself, other people and the world.

You will see that you have an idea about the way you are, and the way you interact with the world.

The law of attraction tips here are designed to get you to see that it is possible for you to choose attitudes that serve you better.  Firstly, the best attitudes to receive the good things in life that you have spent your lifetime preferring are…

– radical acceptance that what ever comes your way is not a mistake

– faith that there is such a law of attraction and that you are not separate and alone in a big universe

– expectation that good things will happen to you

Combine this with watching your behaviour and thoughts, and replacing them with ones that are aligned with what you want to experience will bring better and better experiences.

For example, if you currently go to the supermarket and buy food based on what is on special, or what is cheapest, then the attitude you are sending out is “I don’t have enough money to buy what I need’.

I have found the best way to bring good things into my life is to choose how I want to Be and then ‘turn it over’ or consecrate it to a higher power.  This does two things

1. begins attracting to me the opportunities and circumstances that are aligned with how I chose to Be, e.g healthy and wealthy

2. removes any resistance or worry or seeking without finding from my experience.

Number two is important because it is only through non-resistance to what currently is that what you want can come.  In other words, if you continue to feel the absence of what you want, and you continue to focus on the lack then you will continue to experience the lack.

I find this easier and more powerful than trying to decide what I want to have, or what I want to do and then using law of attraction to bring those into my life.  What you want to have or do can change with the seasons or change at the going down of the sun.  We all want to Be a certain way, e.g. healthy, strong, playful, fun loving, wealthy, so…

– focus more and more on those moments that you currently have

– affirm to yourself how you want to Be, e.g. I am happy, I am playful, I am healthy etc

– make images up and play them over and over again imagining you are there now

The secret law of attraction has come to prominence since 2006/07 after the release of the movie called The Secret.  Even if you are not into wealth accumulation or have no great desire to consciously apply it as above know that it will still be operating either unconsciously or you will be subject to the attitudes and beliefs of the masses, in other words the collective.

Prosperity Affirmations, Words of Affirmation, Abundance Affirmations, Weight Loss Affirmations, Self-Esteem Affirmations

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Prosperity Affirmations & Others

If you are searching for prosperity affirmations, or affirmations for self-esteem, weight loss, happiness or abundance, then what follows is the easy way to understand what you need to do, and it is much easier than I used to think.

When I attended John Assaraf’s weekend seminar at his beautiful Californian home in 2004 (before he went big into larger audiences, coaching and The Secret) I remember feeling frustrated because what I
wanted to achieve or have kept changing soon after I would decide on my affirmations.

This confused me and annoyed me, and an Australian women at the same seminar said that is what happened to her also.

After all, how do you decide on your affirmations if you don’t even know what you want?

Well…..here is the secret that I finally worked out seven years later, and within two short weeks my life has changed just by understanding and applying this one subtle but necessary shift.

Of course I could tell you how great it is and that there is a secret and bait you along just to get you to buy a product from me, or pay me to tell you.  But I am not going to do that.

A prosperity affirmation, or words of affirmation about abundance, weight loss, happiness or self-esteem are not about affirming what you HAVE!

This is why I would not stick to my affirmations longer then two days!  What is wrong with me I thought.  Why don’t I say my affirmations so I can get the things that I want instead of plodding along or changing my mind?

The answer is simple, although it wasn’t simple at the time over those last seven years, it was annoying.

You see affirmations are not about affirming what you want to have, but don’t have now, they are about how you want to BE!!!!!.

An affirmation should start with the words ‘I am’.  This is the breakthrough that I did not understand.  If you affirm something like ‘I have an annual income of $300,000″ then there is no real substance to it.  An income of $300,000 is not a quality of your essential nature, therefore it is not an affirmation, it is simply a wish.

Now I am not saying that saying ‘I have an annual income of $300,000″ won’t get you there, maybe it will.  But is your heart in it and will you carry on with the affirmations day after day?  If so try it, if not then that is probably why you are reading this page.

Affirmations are statements that affirm what is true about your true, essential nature that you are not in touch with at the moment.  For example your essential nature is happy, wise, wealthy, healthy, abundant, forgiving, loving, calm, peaceful, friendly,…etc.

In other words these are states of Being.  They are not things you have or do they are ways to be.  This is the secret of affirmations.

We have it backwards.  We think that when we have something, or do something we will be something.  But we need to go the other way.  We need to be something first, and then everything that is lined up with state of being will be attracted into our lives.

If you are happy, then the universe will attract to you opportunities for you to be happy.  if you are healthy, then you will findyourself turning away from foods that disagree with you and moving towards more raw fruit and vegetables.  Not because you are using will power to eat better, but because your whole system is lining up with who you have selected to be, which is healthy.

So if you want to weigh less, affirm that you are healthy (I wouldn’t even affirm “I am slim’ for example because your essential nature is not slim, it is healthy).  You want to affirm the things that are essentially true about you, which you are choosing to experience.

This also allows for short snappy affirmations that are easy to repeat over and over like a little tune in your head.  I am happy, I am healthy, I am wealthy, I am wise.

Whether it is a prosperity affirmation, self-esteem affirmation or something else, choose how you want to be, and the universe will conspire on your behalf to arrange the circumstance and opportunities for you to be that.

Creating

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Creating

You May As Well Choose 

Creating is something that it ordinarily seems like we choose to do every now and then.  You can choose what you desire but the act itself, as in the verb, is not something chosen.

What does this mean?

You could say you chose to create a dress or a meal or a painting or a song or a story. So, first there was just you and then sometime later the song existed in physical reality. I want you to broaden your awareness and first of all see that the process described above used faculties and tools that you did not choose.

By that I mean you did not choose or develop the ability to think, visualize or plan. These qualities are there by default available for you. You used these abilities to achieve what you set out to. The ability was not attributable to something you chose, but the resultant creation is. These are quite subtle differences and are ordinarily not noticed as you go about your day doing supposedly important stuff.

The reason it is ‘important’ is when you realize you are able to design, plan and live the life you choose then it will seem as if the whole world has changed. To know who you are and to experience self love and wonder you need to begin watching mindfully just how things happen for you.

You need to watch and observe impartially the truth of you. That which is sitting on the chair reading this is more than enough to keep you entertained, in love and interested with life. You are like a Swiss Army Knife, Transformer and Rubik’s cube all rolled into one.

Inside Out or Outside In?

Many people, in fact the majority of the world, look outwards and have their attention on the physical reality external to them. They mistakenly think that is where life happens. The life that happens out there is the physically created version of the life in there.

What you believe and think will be projected out there for you to observe and perceive. Some people, including myself at times, forget this and get caught up in the happenings out there and say ‘it shouldn’t be like that’. We look for some way of manipulating those external events into a different set of circumstances.

Then, I not only remember, but stop and notice in awe at just what is happening as life. What is it within my desires, choices, ideas or denials is manifesting this moment as I know it? If I experience somebody as having a negative quality I look within to my own actions and ideas of who I am so that I love that same quality.

When this is done I feel an energy change in my chest and I know that I won’t experience that same negative emotion ever again. For example I experienced somebody recently as not interested in what others want. As I witnessed this I felt myself wanting to speak up and say to this person ‘you shouldn’t be like that’.

However, once the situation passed and I was alone, I looked within and owned that same quality by recalling two memories of my life when I did exactly the same thing.

I let it be OK that I too did this. I felt the shift. From that moment on I was creating a different world for me to experience.

So do you see how much power you really do have over your life experience? The other type of creating is to choose what you wish to bring into physical reality.

By getting clear in your mind what you want and then adjusting your actions and attitudes you will be carried along to create that which you chose, or at least what is right for your authentic, spiritual self.

An analogy might be a bus. You know the bus will take you to your destination; you don’t have to worry about the bus you just plan where you wish to go. You simply let the bus take you. The infinite intelligence, divine, God, call it what you will, is the process whereby you create. In this analogy the bus is your co-creator.

The creation process happens outside of your responsibility. This means you can let go and concentrate on your part in the creation by having intention and surrendering. You don’t even need to think ‘how’, just think ‘what’ and let the how show up.