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Capricorn Moon Sign, Capricorn Traits, Astrological Moon Signs


If You Are A Capricorn
Moon Sign

A capricorn moon sign will have primarily the following traits. Your self-esteem and personal and spiritual growth comes primarily from you acceptance and letting go of any emotional reaction to being labeled something.

Have a look at the list and notice anything which you resist, i.e. it doesn’t fit in with your self-image or you wish it wasn’t part of you.

– Risk adverse

– Likes safety and security

– Hard on self

– Private

– Organised

– Efficient

– Practical

– Patient

– Responsible

– Difficult to show affection

– Overly worrisome

– Ambitious

– Strong willed

– Desire knowledge

– Dislike being idle

– Rarely shows emotions

– Eager to learn

– Materialistic success desired

Then go through all the other astrological moon signs and work your way through those also.  We all posses the ability to display
every trait so your sense of self-acceptance and self-esteem is dependent on you embracing all the capricorn traits from this moon sign list, and all the other 11 as well.

Best Inspirational Quotes


Best Inspirational Quotes

Hand selected best inspirational quotes from various people in different fields of expertise.

Wayne Dyer Quotes

Discover spiritual encouragement and inspiration from Dr Wayne Dyer quotes. These quotes have been selected from a couple of Wayne Dyer books, namely 10 Secrets for Success and Inner Peace and Getting in the Gap…

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Strength Quotes

And Quotes About Honesty

A list of strength quotes to remind you of the strength and power that comes from being true to yourself and honest with others.

There is no reason to be ashamed of what you want or what is important to you.  The world wants your truth.  You are as you are and I hope that these strength quotes remind you that really the only thing worth being in life is integral with your inner guidance and conscience… Read More

Self-Esteem Quotes

A selection of self-esteem quotes spoken from a place of clear awareness describing a main cause of low self-esteem.

People think it is a virtue to disown parts of themselves of which they disapprove. All they succeed in doing is to keep themselves stuck with those parts forever. They have cut off the
only means of growth or transformation.

Nataniel Branden  Read More

Marianne Williamson Quotes

A selection of Marianne Williamson quotes to provide words of spiritual encouragement.  These spiritual quotes are provided here to help paint the picture of what this website is about when I refer to higher self-esteem and self-confidence… Read More

Inspirational Quotes

These inspirational life quotes convey discovering yourself as a way to higher self-esteem. For me it is the only way to genuine… Read More

Deepak Chopra Quotes

Selected spiritual quotations and other inspirational Deepak Chopra quotes.

The deepest hunger in life is a secret that is revealed only when a person is willing to unlock a hidden part of the self… Read More

Eckhart Tolle Quotes

The selected spiritual quotations are picked specifically for relevance to support the intention of this website to raise consciousness and therefore experience higher self esteem. These quotes have been taken from The Power of Now book, The Flowering of Human Consciousness DVD filmed in La Jolla, California
2001 and Practicing Presence DVD.  Read More

Appreciation Quotations

Appreciation quotations to impress upon you the importance of letting go wishing things were different.  In the bigger scheme, there will always be something to appreciate.  When reading these quotations remember that your attitude and perspective determines your experience… Read More

Inspirational Quotes About Life

Here is a list of inspirational quotes about life and how to think about life and what is rewarding and fulfilling.  They are inspirational quotes about life from various people all pointing to
self-empowerment and taking 100% responsibility for your life… Read More

Authentic Happiness, The Great Awakening


Want To Know The Way To Authentic Happiness?

If you are lost, life is hopeless, pointless and without authentic happiness then this website is for you. Or maybe you just want more inner peace and contentment or a realization of the truth?

Middle Aged Woman Outside Tree Autumn Authentic Happiness

I know how you might be feeling. Do you have a bookshelf full of self help materials? Self esteem low? Have an idea about your spirituality? Maybe you are searching for the umpteenth time for information on self help, spirituality or self esteem. Or, maybe you feel alone and often in despair, drifting with no sense of where you belong, what you are doing in this life or why.

It is probably no coincidence you have come here and are reading. Maybe you were meant to be. This website has been designed with you in mind. Wherever you’re at in your life, whatever your experience, this website is created for you.

Up until age 33 I somehow didn’t feel right. I felt I had a big piece missing and I wanted to be different. Do you know what I mean? For the most part I was quite happy BUT deep down there was something about me I was frustrated with and felt inadequate. Soon I was to find out why ALL human beings experience this or some form of this anxiety, guilt or inferiority complex.

Hopefully that takes a bit of weight off your shoulders, it is not your fault.

This website has been designed and built with you mind. It is available to anyone who is willing to work. The rewards are sure worth it. Keep reading below to find out a bit about what the benefits are.

Actually, once you begin and you find some value in this sort of approach to life it will grab you and it won’t let you go. Then it doesn’t feel like work but just a happy, content peaceful way of living which is ultimately fulfilling.

How would you like a whole new way of seeing the world? It is possible for you to live your life in a whole new way. The information on this website is designed to help you learn how to experience:

  • acceptance
  • love
  • tolerance
  • forgiveness
  • gratitude
  • compassion
  • enhanced skill learning ability
  • respect
  • intuition
  • a presence that makes others feel good
  • inner peace
  • joy
  • unconditional love
  • contentment, and
  • authentic happiness

Arjuna Ardagh, Gay Hendricks, Conscious Men Manifesto


Arjuna Ardagh And Gay Hendricks

 Conscious Men Manifesto

Arjuna Ardagh and Gay Hendricks have penned A Manifesto for Conscious Men (opens in a new window) to

(1) apologise to women for actions in the past and present,

(2) usher in a new era of mutual divine worship between men and women.

A manifesto is a public declaration.  Whether or not a general public apology is effective in changing anything, or warranted, this manifesto does serve as a guide to living a balanced, personally
responsible life.

Some people focus on whether there is a need for an apology to women, but that is missing the potential for growth that lies in the ‘right’attitude and knowledge that is behind the manifesto.

At the heart of the manifesto is the realisation that men, and to a lesser extent women, live unbalanced lives, detached from the completeness of our masculine and feminine energies.

With so much of our life requiring mind; planning; thinking and interpretation, we do not realise the abundance, wisdom and harmony that comes to our lives when we spend time and conscious attention feeling and being present in our bodies, specifically the heart.

…I honor your intuition and your profound capacity for feeling. As men, we have often devalued feeling and intuition in favor of a view dominated by data and logic. This way of being seemed necessary to move humanity beyond superstition and animalism, but in the process we lost much of the heart of life. I commit to respecting the arts of feeling, intuition and wisdom of the feminine heart, so that together we can integrate them into a balanced view of life, that honors and includes all wisdoms...

To sit and spend even a few minutes feeling the heart helps to balance all energies within.  With the mind being masculine and the heart being feminine, is it any wonder the feminine in the external world has not been considered equal when we devalue and ignore the heart-space within?

If the external world is a reflection of what attitudes, energies and beliefs reside within then we need to look within to see what we can balance and discover what within will take us to the next stage of development as human beings.

If you are a man or a woman, conscious or not, sitting and rediscovering your heart by feeling it (not imagining it or thinking about it!) will balance within and help humanity move forward towards
experiencing blessings, success, abundance and harmonious relationships.

If you honour the feminine within (the heart) you will improve your life, help create miracles and experience synchronicity that will astound you.

Those who get stuck arguing why an apology is not justified or sticking to their belief that a man needs to be a certain way are separating themselves from the balance within.

A Conscious Men Manifesto by Arjun Ardagh and Gay Hendricks has several helpful pointers to men and women, but I think it is probably going to be missed by the vast majority.  Regardless, the manifesto comes from a wise place and deserves to be honoured.

Aries Moon Sign, Aries Traits, Astrological Moon Signs


If You Are An Aries Moon Sign

An aries moon sign will have primarily the following traits. Your self-esteem and personal and spiritual growth comes primarily from you acceptance and letting go of any emotional reaction to being labeled something.

Have a look at the list and notice anything which you resist, i.e. it doesn’t fit in with your self-image or you wish it wasn’t part of you.

– Natural charisma

– Vibrant and energetic personality

– Bored quickly

– Impatient

– Demanding

– Courageous

– Impulsive

– Enthusiastic

– Spontaneous

– Determined

– Optimistic

– Wants things now!

– Passionate

– Expressive

– Self-confident

– Difficult to take orders from others

Then go through all the other astrological moon signs and work your way through those also.  We all posses the ability to display every trait so your sense of self-acceptance and self-esteem is dependent on you embracing all the aries traits from this moon sign list, and all the other 11 as well.

Ares Greek God of War, Archetypes And Myths

Ares

Greek God Of War

Ares Greek God of war is the archetype of masculine power and aggression without rational thought of the effects or consequences.

The word archetype describes what Carl Jung identified as patterns of behaving that arise from the collective unconscious of humankind. The pattern of being is not unique to an individual; it is available to manifest in each of us because we each reflect a part of the whole.

To recognize Ares active within your life look for…

  • acting instinctively without thinking of consequences
  • having passionate and intense reactions including rage and anger
  • living within the body, intensely emotional and expressive
  • ruled by emotional and physical reactions

Possible drawbacks to living the Ares archetype…

  • lack of ability to be ‘the watcher’; the non judgmental observer of self and actions
  • lacks ability to rationalize and select choices; simply reacts like a robot
  • doesn’t fit in with rules and regulations
  • doesn’t plan or take long term view

This information has been summarized from the book Gods in Everyman by Jean Shinoda-Bolen.

If you recognize your patterns of acting and being in the world from the above list and are curious about what you can do to change, then first and foremost use this information as proof that you are not different, defective or a victim of your past programming.

The above shows the commonality in the human experience when certain innate energies are active. As such begin by accepting that you do indeed own these particular traits and let it be OK that you do.

This will slightly raise your self-esteem and self-acceptance for each trait you own.  If you would like some guidance or clarification, please contact me, I would love to help.

Are You Happy? Hooponopono


Are You Happy?

Are you happy as you are, really? Happiness doesn’t come
from anything external, it can’t. External objects have no power to
bring happiness.
If you were brutally honest about where you are in life, are you happy?

People so often take how they feel as just normal, or just the way it
is for them, or just the way they are. This is rubbish; there is no
particular way that you are set in stone. You are a human being, alive
in this moment of creation and anything that you would rather change is
your resistance and is the root cause of unhappiness.

Where it gets interesting is to know where the source of
this resistance comes from.

As a child and at all times in your life previous to now
you have incurred people and circumstances, events and occurrences.
In a perfect world you would be able to see the whole picture of why
these things occurred and you would be at peace and acceptance.

It is coming to peace, acceptance and forgiveness about
what has happened to us in our lives that allows us to move forward and
be happy.
In reality when we experience an incident we make an interpretation
about it and make it mean something about us.

This meaning, memory and
the associated feelings stay within your nervous system and never go
until they are cleared. You likely won’t even be conscious of these
memories, especially if they are painful, shameful, guilt-ridden or
scary. Nevertheless these memories and feelings will be running your
life and causing all sorts of unhappiness.

The secret to being happy is to clear these memories and
the associated feelings disappear like magic. When that happens you are
then free to be here now, in this moment, relating to people and
circumstances without being influenced by your negative ‘stuff’ from
the past.

Since I discovered it, I have always had great success with the ancient
Hawaiian Ho’oponopono method of memory clearing. It is simple, powerful
and I can testify to the amazing results it has produced for me.

Aquarius Moon Sign, Aquarius Traits, Astrological Moon Signs


If You Are An Aquarius
Moon Sign

An aquarius moon sign will have primarily the following traits. Your self-esteem and personal and spiritual growth comes primarily from you acceptance and letting go of any emotional reaction to being labeled something.

Have a look at the list and notice anything which you resist, i.e. it doesn’t fit in with your self-image or you wish it wasn’t part of you.

– Observant

– Shy

– Prefer to be on own

– Prefer to be different

– Stubborn

– Independence

– Optimistic

– Friendly

– Playful

– Intelligent

– Logical

– Social

– Sympathetic

– Humanitarian

– Integrity

– Honesty

Then go through all the other astrological moon signs and work your way through those also.  We all posses the ability to display every trait so your sense of self-acceptance and self-esteem is dependent on you embracing all the aquarius traits from this moon sign list, and all the other 11 as well.

Appreciation Quotations, Gratitude and Thankfulness Quotes,Words and Sayings

Feel Good With Appreciation Quotations

Appreciation quotations to impress upon you the importance of letting go wishing things were different. In the bigger scheme, there will always be something to appreciate.

When reading these quotations remember that your attitude and perspective determines your experience. If you see the negative you will get the corresponding feelings. If you see the bigger picture and focus on the positives you will get those feelings.

Gratitude unlocks the fullness of life. It turns what we have into enough, and more. It turns denial into acceptance, chaos to order, confusion to clarity. Melody Beattie

Gratitude can turn a negative into a positive. Find a way to be thankful for your troubles and they can become your blessings. Unknown

Make it a habit to tell people thank you. To express your appreciation, sincerely and without the expectation of anything in return. Truly appreciate those around you, and you’ll soon find many others around you. Truly appreciate life, and you’ll find that you have more of it. Ralph Marston

He is a wise man who does not grieve for the things which he has not, but rejoices for those which he has. Epictetus

Just a “thank you” is a mighty powerful prayer. Says it all. Rosie Cash

When I started counting my blessings, my whole life turned around. Willie Nelson

Gratitude is not only the greatest of virtues, but the parent of all the others. Cicero

If you concentrate on finding whatever is good in every situation, you will discover that your life will suddenly be filled with gratitude, a feeling that nurtures the soul. Rabbi Harold Kushner

The thankful receiver bears a plentiful harvest. William Blake

Who does not thank for little will not thank for much. Estonian Proverb

The grateful mind is constantly fixed upon the best. Therefore it tends to become the best. It takes the form or character of the best, and will receive the best. Wallace D. Wattles

What if you gave someone a gift, and they neglected to thank you for it, would you be likely to give them another? Life is the same way. In order to attract more of the blessings that life has to offer, you must truly appreciate what you already have. Ralph Marston

These appreciation quotations have been reproduced from various sources, for which I appreciate.

Apollo the Sun God, Archetypes And Myths, Unconscious Personality

Apollo
The Sun God

Apollo the sun god is the archetype of the one who finds life quite easy and enjoyable. Goals are realistic and worked towards logically and persistently but lacks drive to make it to the top.

The word archetype describes what Carl Jung identified as patterns of behaving that arise from the collective unconscious of humankind. The pattern of being is not unique to an individual; it is available to manifest in each of us because we each reflect a part of the whole.

To recognize Apollo active within your life look for…

  • Curious and inquisitive about the world
  • successful at anything the mind is put towards
  • wants to master skills
  • lives more in the mind and thoughts rather than body
    and emotions

Possible drawbacks to living the Apollo archetype…

  • Inability and unwillingness to connect emotionally and
    intimately
  • More concerned with own thoughts and judgments than
    emotions and communicating with others
  • In later years may find all that was important up until
    then is now meaningless.

This information has been summarized from the book Gods in Everyman by Jean Shinoda Bolen.

If you recognize your patterns of acting and being in the world from the above list and are curious about what you can do to change, then first and foremost use this information as proof that you are not different, defective or a victim of your past programming.

The above shows the commonality in the human experience when certain innate energies are active. As such begin by accepting that you do indeed own these particular traits and let it be OK that you do.

This will slightly raise your self-esteem and self-acceptance for each trait you own.

If you would like some guidance or clarification, please contact
me, I would love to help.